Sunday, December 28, 2014

New Year's Resolution - Letting go of Bad Habits

Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny. – Tryon Edwards
Here we are the last Sunday of 2014.  Where did 2014 go?  I’m not one to look back and wish I had done something different.  I don’t think living in the past is productive.  Sure you can always learn from the past, but living there, “No thanks!”  I’m ready for the New Year. 

To wrap up the year…let’s see, I’ve successfully gained the typical weight during the holidays.  I’ve successfully felt that I could have done better organizing.  Wait…halt, rewind!  It’s time for me to think differently.  It’s not okay to think it is okay to do what I didn’t want to do!  By the choices I made, I took action and accomplished exactly what I set out to do, even if it wasn’t what I really wanted.  I didn’t want to gain weight.  I simply chose to eat more than I should. I ended up yet again more disorganized than I wanted.  I simply chose to pile instead of file. 

What’s the common denominator?  I chose to repeat my bad habits!  A new year is a perfect time to replace bad habits with good habits.

At this time of year, it is common to put together a list of Goals or Resolutions.  Then by week three or four, it’s right back to the old habits and another year of the same old results.  Now that I’m 50, I’m a little discouraged to read that only 14% of people over 50 achieve their resolutions each year.  That makes me wonder, what is it that 14% of the people do?  What makes them stick to their resolutions?  

Maybe it is simply letting go of bad habits?  Until you’re okay with letting go of your bad habits, you inadvertently hang on tighter resulting in yet another year of missed goals.  Stopping the bad habits might be the key to success. 

Hmmm…Your thoughts can lead you to a greater purpose.  Your purpose gives you motivation for action.  Your actions form new habits.  New habits create your character, and lo and behold, you’re on to the destiny you desire.

So if my purpose is to accomplish my resolution list by letting go of bad habits, can I switch my thinking for the Top 10 Resolutions from 2014?  As a result ultimately getting to the destiny I desire?  I’m game, how about you?  New Year's Resolution Stats
  1. Lose weight = “Stop eating ½ bag of chips every night.”
  2. Get Organized = “Stop piling, file right away.”
  3. Spend Less, Save More = “Stop impulse buying, wait 24-48 hours before making a purchase.”
  4. Enjoy Life to the Fullest = “Stop focusing on what is bugging you.”
  5. Stay Fit and Healthy = “Stop sitting for more than an hour without moving.”
  6. Learn Something New = “Stop doing the same thing every day, if it feels like a rut, it is.”
  7. Quit Something = “Stop rationalizing to keep doing the thing you want to stop doing.”
  8. Help Others in Their Dreams = “Stop talking, just listen.”
  9. Fall in Love = “Stop being content with status quo.”
  10. Spend More Time with Family = “Stop technology distractions, i.e., texts, snaps, etc. focus on the people in your life.”


Thanks for stopping by!  Cheers to a New Year!  Cheers to letting go of old habits! ~

PS.  Photography 50 Clicks of Snow.  Yesterday I woke up to snow, 5 inches of it.  It was still snowing and blowing out but so pretty.  I knew that I wanted to explore taking pictures of the snow.  I researched on how to capture some pictures in the snow, and protect my camera at the same time.  I think the tips you can find are more for the hard core photographers who spend the whole day in the elements.  Since it was cold and blowing, I was only out there for 20 minutes to get my 50 clicks in. My camera didn't get cold enough to get condensation on the lens.  Hardly hard core!  My mission was to capture snow texture and contrast.  It has been so darn gloomy here…20 some days in a row without the sun.  Just the white of the snow brightened up things a bit.  Today though…the sun was shining bright for a bit.  I wasn't brave enough to venture out in the 12 degrees.  Pictures today were taken from the window looking out at the beauty of the frost.  

Under exposed

Better

Over exposed

Better, but the car in the background...jeez!

Still love close ups and background blurred

Cropped it even more, love the little water droplet

Pretty but gloomy at the same time.

Focus on the back ground

Focus on the foreground - Love the sunshine!

Snow can be so pretty!





Sunday, December 21, 2014

Using your traditions as a guide for a stress-free holiday season

Tradition is a guide and not a jailer. – W Somerset Maugham
It’s just 4 days until Christmas.  Are you ready?  Do you have all your baking done?  Do you have all your presents wrapped?  Do you have your menu planned and ingredients shopped for?  Do you have your Christmas cards out in the mail?  Oh boy, the traditional list of things to do or have done by now is long.  Are you feeling stressed to make sure you get it all done?

As I sit here, gearing up for the day.  I wonder, am I ready?  Now that I’m 50, I’ve gotten over the stress of feeling that I have to do everything according to tradition. There’s a different feel for me as the big day approaches.   Still the feeling of Christmas, but not the stress.  Going with minimal decorations, minimal gifts, minimal meal planning and a simple Christmas photo collage sent weeks ago has been stress-free.  I finished up wrapping gifts yesterday. 

Baking...it hadn’t even occurred to me to do cookies this year...perhaps in the back of my mind I know don’t need the calories anyhow?!  Yesterday in a moment of realization that I had forgotten to bake, I decided to see if I could solicited my oldest to do some baking of cookies!  She was excited to do so.   Ah…the old baking tradition created while she was growing up lives on in her! 

There you have it…I guess I’m as ready as I’ll ever be.  Frankly, the lack of trying to do the old traditions is stress-free and refreshing.  I sure hope it doesn’t mean I’ve become a curmudgeon or Scrooge…!  Nah…it is because our kids are grown and not living under the same roof.  It's a perfect time to modify traditions.

Really??  It's okay, it’s not so bad.  We no longer have to hide the gifts.  Thinking back, that tradition ended when they hit the teen years!  It was definitely more cost effective to let them pick out most of their gifts.  Then they liked them and didn’t just keep them, tags still on until the next summer’s thrift sale came around to discard.  This year, that tradition carried on.  They picked out their minimal gifts during our traditional Black Friday shopping trip.  Leaving me with the creative option of wrapping them differently so they can’t remember what it was they picked out weeks ago.  

It isn’t about the gifts though it’s more about being together.  That tradition is the one I treasure the most.  

It is okay to give yourself permission to use your traditions as a guide, don’t be jailed by them.  Use them to shake it up a bit.  Remembering back to the stressful years, it was because I had the feeling I had to do everything just right and do it the same way as the year before.  I felt as though I couldn't help my kids create memories unless we did the tradition the right way. 

In retrospect, I think their anticipation of what was to be, whether according to tradition or not, was what I nurtured and allowed to change as they grew up.  I'm pretty sure they hold some traditions in their heart that they'll always do, and I'm positive they will modify them knowing it is okay to do so.

In the end, it’s about love and being together that mean the most.  You can’t wrap that up in a package! You can relax, enjoy each other’s company, and create the moments you’ll treasure for years to come. 

Thanks for stopping by!  May you use your traditions as a guide.  Enjoy them and enjoy your time together!  

PS –  50 Clicks photo session on 200 ISO & Christmas lights blurred in the background.  Last year, I stumbled upon a website that shared how to blur the Christmas lights in the background.  It’s simply setting your ISO to 200 in manual mode and the rest of the room with bright lights turned on.  The result is fun.  To me it looks like you’ve taken a picture in the dark.  

My Antique Elf on the Shelf - I remember this tradition,
wasn't around so much when my kids were
growing up.  I still bring him out each year.  I love
his little hand painted face and faded outfit.

Oops...moved, the technique requires a steady
camera, and this is what happens when you move.

The little ceramic snow couple were always
set out as decorations as I was growing up.  Again, I moved!

Getting closer to the look I was trying to capture.

The first little snowman family I bought for our
home when our kids were little.

Aw...fond memories of family!

And here you go...the blur, the lighting,
and the placement of the snowman in the frame -
just what I was trying to create.
It reminds me...Let it Snow!  A little bit of
snow on Christmas is a tradition I'll never tire of!


Saturday, December 6, 2014

50 is a great time to discover you're not done growing

Those who improve with age embrace the power of personal growth and personal achievement and begin to replace youth with wisdom, innocence with understanding, and lack of purpose with self-actualization.  – Bo Bennett
We’re Done! – 49 Weeks ‘til I’m 50 – Ready, Set, it’s all about A FOCUSed plan to get there!  The big day arrived a week ago!  The AARP envelope arrived earlier that week and made it official, I’m 50.  The next morning I woke up and…I felt the same as the day before.  

So, I’ve given it a week to see if I feel any different?  Nope, still feel the same.  I guess after all these years of experience having birthdays, I’ve gotten so well at adjustment, the turning a new age thing doesn’t bother me much at all.  This last year has been a fun journey of discover though.  I’m ready to move on to discovering why 50 isn’t that bad after all.  I confess too, I'm excited to blog again about just random thoughts again.

For the last month leading up to 50, I discovered letting go of the 40’s is pretty darn easy.  Why?  The obvious, of course, is you can’t stop time, so you might as well accept it.  The less obvious, is when you let go of something, you free yourself to discover new things.  A choice to do new things, outside of my “normal” schedule was refreshing.  I discovered how much I treasure my friends and family.  I found stepping out of my comfort zone has gotten easier over the years.  I found stepping out of your rut, you discover the road less traveled can be bumpy and it can be smooth.  It's simply fun to go with it no matter what.  Stepping out of your comfort zone may be just what you need to keep on keeping on with this crazy thing called life!
You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition.  What you’ll discover will be wonderful.  What you’ll discover is yourself.  – Alan Alda
The first 49 years gave me the gift of the ability to COPE – Chill, Observe, Persevere and Enjoy.  I take that gift with me to the 50’s and love being me.  Sure, I've made mistakes, but I can't hold on to them with regret.  That's fear holding me back.  Every person makes mistakes as they grow, but no matter what choices you make along the way, they create the person you are meant to be.  The wisdom gained from the mistakes and successes in life only help you continue to grow.  You don’t grow old, you simply continue to grow.  

Without a doubt, I am blessed and thankful beyond words.  I treasure my family, my friends and my life.  There’s no time like the present to discover the next phase in life!   Ready, set, let’s roll on to the 50’s and discover how rich life really is.  

Take time during your 50’s to:
  • Travel somewhere you've never been.
  • Visit a museum or famous landmark.
  • Color your hair, or don’t, it’s your hair, you decide!
  • Laugh uncontrollably more times than not.
  • Be brave, bold and beautiful.
  • Paint something, doesn’t matter what, ‘cuz it’s fun to create.
  • Listen intently to the sounds around you.
  • Pause, relax and enjoy simple things.
  • Tweak traditions.
  • Be goofy.
  • Taste new foods.
  • Walk, run, play, more often than you sit.
  • Smile…A LOT!
  • Embrace the person you've become and never stop growing!

Thanks for stopping by and for taking this journey of letting go of the 40’s and embracing the 50’s with me!  Enjoy your ability to COPE!  Time keeps on ticking away – be present for each moment! 
How did it get so late so soon?  Its night before its afternoon.  December is here before its June.  My goodness how the time has flewn.  How did it get so late so soon?  Dr. Seuss

PS…photography moments.  I’m setting out to try 50 clicks each time I pick up my camera.  On top of that, I have to keep only the worst one and the best one of the 50 click session.  Now that’s a challenge for me.  Being that I’m the one who took the photos, even if they are horrible, I still see some beauty that I was trying to capture in each one.  I’m getting better at deleting the blurry ones or completely white/black because I had the ISO wrong.  I’m hoping the restriction of finding the worst and the best and deleting the rest will help me focus on composition and clarity. 

One day I saw a fire that was smoldering in a field and I thought…hmmm, that’s something that I haven’t taken a picture of, wonder if I can find something cool to capture?  It was a nice little stroll in the fog.   I’m stepping out of my comfort zone, trying new and different things.  Yep, 50 is going to be great.   

A path is always interesting

But this one is more interesting,
leading into the fog

The tree, the fog, the little fire

Focusing more on the forefront, I'm
not sure which I like better.

Cool contrasts, and flames, maybe a little too dark.

More smoke and a bigger flame.

Tree leaves and fog in the background.

Oh, but the tree and the texture of this one is better.

The reed like weeds were cool looking to me.

I like this composition better,
the small smoke at the bottom,
leading up to the weeds.

It's hard to see, but I actually captured a spider web
on the tree branches in front.  

I like how the branches in front blurred a bit, and the
smoke in the back and flame are more clear.

Time to head back!  See you
in 50 clicks!



 
 

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Beautiful imperfections

There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection.  To me, that is the true essence of beauty. – Steve Maraboli
Week #47 – 49 Weeks ‘til I’m 50 – Ready, Set, it’s all about A FOCUSed plan to get there!  Yikes…only 3 weeks left.

So here I am less than 3 weeks to the big day.   Am I ready?  Well, I have to be, it’s going to be here regardless of what I do.  I am still preparing to do so with gusto instead of dread.  You bet, with a bit more research, I'm confident I'll be prepared.  What have I been researching you ask? Beauty tips for the older woman.   

As women get closer and closer to the big 50, being human, we tend to have our doubts about our ability to pull off ageless beauty.  I’m guess I’m no different.  When my kids were young, I came upon a very simple make-up routine.  Nothing spectacular, but have always loved how quick it goes.  As I have a little more time to myself instead of having to get them ready too, perhaps there’s something I’m missing?  I looked in the mirror and what did I see?  Hmmm…perhaps it is time to change up the make-up scene?   There are a few more imperfections happening as I age.  Can they really be minimized?  Make-up, hair, and clothes.  The 3 big cover-up tools at our disposal!

Hair first…off to a visit with my hair dresser.  While I’ve been trying to convince her and myself that we need to go grey.  It just comes down to neither one of us being quite ready.  Instead, we went with a new color, by adding highlights of the auburn color my hair turns when I've spent too much time in the sun.  A gradual move to lighter colors.  Just subtle enough that if you look at me you might notice something is different, but not sure what.  Perfect.

Now looking closer in the mirror, with the new hair color, my make-up really didn’t look quite right. Not sure what it was, so I started doing some research.  Thank goodness for the internet.  In the comfort of my own home, I can discover what do to.  Unbeknownst to me, I found out I am supposed to change how I do my make-up as I age.  What?  Yep, according to YouTube videos.  I’ve been doing it wrong!

Seriously????  Enter in…a perfect time wasting opportunity.  I was completely sucked into taking a look at the things women do to stay looking “young and beautiful.”  When women start to really feel their age and notice it more and more in the mirror, their make-up routine needs to change too, so they say.  Perhaps it’s just me, but it is fairly easy to get drawn into YouTube videos that “show you how to do it right”.  

Then I started to think, “OMG…I’ve been doing it all wrong, now what…I guess it’s time to go shopping.”  Tricks of the trade, come with special tools too!  So after I looked at my very minimal tool set, there was absolutely no way to create the look without buying all the tools.  I hoped substitutes from Walmart would work.   The cost and time of purchasing the recommended products from overseas would only prolong the process.  Time, after all is ticking away way too fast!

So off to the store I went.  I was like a teenager buying make-up for the first time.  A candy store of options and colors.  I wandered aisle after aisle, with my long list of items to buy and a teenager budget, aka., helping with children's college budget.  There I stood numb searching for items I’d never used before.  To top it off, I must have looked like a complete novice as I struggled to see the items with my bifocals.  If you wear bifocals, you know what I mean.  There’s the awkward look of either getting too close to the items on the shelves so you can see them, (aka, the zoom into the shelf look), or the neck breaking tilt as you try to focus your eyes in the bifocal area of the lenses.  Back to reality - I'm not a teenager anymore!

An hour later, and a very sore neck, I was a proud owner of a pile of make-up tools, composed of close substitutes from what I could remember I had to buy for the perfect kit.  A little embarrassed, ready for a glass of wine to celebrate, I was secretly excited to try something new!  I headed home to watch more videos, drink some wine, and watch some more techniques before trying out the tools.  It was too late in the day to try anything new.  The tool kit sat on my counter for another day.

In research mode, I found tons of options to watch.  I did notice that more blonde women make videos, and that didn’t help me at all.  One lady’s site was very entertaining though.  Her make-up ritual included way more than my new kit.  Entertaining or not her extensive plan was out.  I stumbled across a young brunette who showed how to do eye brows.  Apparently as you age, they seem to disappear and fade away.  A quick look in the mirror, dang, they're right again!  But, they are very important for a youthful look, so they say.  Time for bed, I was exhausted!  

Day one comes and I tried out some of the new techniques.  With thankfulness that I work from home most of the time, my experimental phases are only witnessed by my pets and my husband.  My first day’s attempt with the “youthful” directions about eyebrows, I had some seriously brown eyebrows, and definitely not as pretty as Audrey Hepburn!  To top it off I had the caked on look of the foundation.  Bless my husband’s heart, after 25 years of marriage he has mastered the skill of not saying anything unless I ask.  I didn’t ask, and he didn’t say.  He did give me a extra hug or two that day.  Was I younger looking??  Perhaps his bifocal issue in the awkward zone helped too!  Nah...it was simply beautiful imperfections mastered!

It was definitely time for the wash cloth and for a new teacher.  Off to YouTube for a few more lessons on application.  I wanted to see what brunettes do and what women my age or so do.  I came across a couple helpful websites. 


After several days of the routine taking longer than it had for years, I’ve modified it some to incorporate the new techniques and old techniques.  I’m far from perfected yet, and I still have research to do.  And…unlike the lovely ladies in all the videos, I’m definitely not ready to share a picture!  I am enjoying the practice, practice, practice stage.  It is kind of fun painting a new look. I'm feeling a bit more comfortable with the tools of the trade and mostly more comfortable with my imperfections.  

Perhaps the routine will become a new habit?  Coincidentally…21 days makes a habit and that’s how long until the big day.  I can move on to the clothes next.  Time to wear those new skinny jeans and boots to see if the clothes make the woman.  Jeez...Enough said and enough time spent for now!  

I’ll leave you with some of my favorite beauty quotes for a little inspiration. 
  • The mirror is the worst judge of true beauty. – Sophia Nam
  • Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. – Eleanor Roosevelt
  • Flawed, we’re truly interesting, truly memorable, and yes, truly beautiful. – Justina Chen
  • We desire to possess a beauty that is worth pursuing, worth fighting for, a beauty that is core to who we truly are.  We want beauty that can be seen; beauty that can be felt; beauty that affects others; a beauty all our own to unveil. – Stasi Eldredge
  • Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes.  It is not something physical. – Sophia Loren
  • Outer beauty attracts, but inner beauty captivates. – Kate Angell
  • Happy girls are the prettiest. – Audrey Hepburn
  • Beauty is the illumination of your soul. – John O’Donohue
  • It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being. – John Joseph Powell
  • There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others. – Mandy Hale
  •  ‘Nothing,’ wrote Tolstoy, ‘can make our life, or the lives of other people, more beautiful than perpetual kindness.’” – Gretchen Rubin
  • You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed.  And you are beautiful. – Amy Bloom

Thanks for stopping by ~ Enjoy all your moments in life where you’re comfortable being beautiful you! 

PS – Photography moments finding beauty!

Life is full of beauty.  Notice it.  Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces.  Smell the rain, and feel the wind.  Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams. – Ashley Smith 
Feel the wind

Enjoy the colors

Notice the birds

Even the corn matures with beauty

Enjoy the rays of sun

Look at what it takes to paint beauty...!  At least
I found "eco friendly" kits ;-)

Saturday, October 18, 2014

Plant some inspiration wherever you go

Life itself is a quotation. – Jorge Luis Borges
Week #44 – 49 Weeks ‘til I’m 50 – Ready, Set, it’s all about A FOCUSed plan to get there!  Only 6 weeks left.

Think about the quote above for a few minutes.  Do you think it is accurate?  Is your life worth quoting?  Are the words you share daily worth repeating by someone else?  Do you wonder if anyone ever quotes you? 

How many times have you heard people say, “Don’t quote me on it.”  Maybe that’s why by definition, Ambrose Bierce has been known to say.  "A quotation is a noun meaning the act of repeating erroneously the words of another."  Maybe that is in reference to all those quotes out there by ‘Anonymous’ or ‘Unknown’?   Who knows, but it does make me wonder?

A search on Google says:  "A group of words taken from text or speech and repeated by someone other than the original author or speaker." 

Frankly speaking, I love quotes.  I love the idea that someone thought that whatever another person said, it was worth capturing in those cute little quote marks.  “…”  Quotations make me think deeper and longer.  Sometimes the quotes make me step back and ponder or reflect, or confirm, or motivate, or calm down, or just be and embrace change.  Quotes can also inspire, and that’s really cool in my book.  

So, here we are at week 44!  In just 6 short weeks the big day will be here.  Just like Autumn rolling in, there’s no stopping it.  So let’s get inspired with 10 of my favorite quotations on life changing.  Ready, set, focus!

“20 years from now you will be disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the one’s you did.  So throw off the bowlines.  Sail away from the safe harbor.  Catch the trade winds in your sails.  Explore.  Dream.  Discover.” – Mark Twain
“One day your life will flash before your eyes.  Make sure it’s worth watching.” – Unknown
“If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” – Steve Jobs
“Live as if you were living for the second time and had acted as wrongly the first time as you are about to act now.” – Viktor Frankl
“Today is the first day of the rest of your life.” – Anonymous
“To create more positive results in your life, replace ‘if only’ with ‘next time’.” – Unknown
“In terms of days and moments lived, you’ll never again be as young as you are right now, so spend this day, the youth of your future, in a way that deflects regret.  Invest in yourself.  Have some fun.  Do something important.  Love somebody extra.  In one sense, you’re just a kid, but a kid with enough years on her to know that every day is priceless.” – Victoria Moran, Younger by the Day:  365 Ways to Rejuvenate Your Body and Revitalize Your Spirit
 “All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy, for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another.” – Anatole France
“We must learn to view change as a natural phenomenon – to anticipate it and to plan for it.  The future is ours to channel in the direction we want to go…we must continually ask ourselves, ‘What will happen if…?’ or better still, ‘How can we make it happen?’” – Lisa Taylor
“If we can recognize that change and uncertainty are basic principles, we can greet the future and the transformation we are undergoing with the understanding that we do not know enough to be pessimistic.” – Hazel Henderson
Thanks for stopping by – “Inspire others to live a life worth quoting” – Me

PS – Photography moments.  As the season change, I purposefully tried to capture changes in the plants I’d been admiring all season.  Change is easy to capture in film in the form of before and after.  Or should I say, “that was then, this is now”?  
  
Morning glories are so pretty! 

These crazy leaning glads.

Impatiens

Gladly laying in grass 

Orchid glads

Not so pretty as the frost took hold

What a difference a frost makes

Still leaning, but ready for pulling up for the winter

Trusty Copper, always ready for the photo bomb moment

Still amazed that I dig the glads up every year

Time to harvest some seeds for next year!
Plant some inspiration wherever you go!   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Sunday, September 28, 2014

Serious thoughts on garage sales

The one serious conviction that a man should have is that nothing is to be taken too seriously. – Nicholas Butler
Week #41 - 49 Weeks ‘til I’m 50 – Ready, Set, it’s all about A FOCUSed plan to get there!  Only 8 weeks left.

Welcome Back – Never fear, even if I’m not here writing a post, I’m thinking about doing so.  But then I get too serious and want to write something profound and can’t think of a single thing, so I walk away.  One of these days, maybe I should figure out how to blog from my smart phone instead of my trusty computer.  

On with the random thoughts for the day!  As one approaches 50, there's a strong desire to let go of things that are simply consuming too much of your time or space.  Letting go of stuff just feels right. 

The last few weeks in our spare time (LOL – as I write that, it’s hard not to chuckle, as spare time is pretty rare) my husband and I have been getting ready for a garage sale.  A last ditch effort to clear out some stuff before the winter season sets in.  High hopes to clear out stuff.  In our past, we’ve always had HUGE sales and big responses by shoppers.  So of course, the serious side of me set out to sell a ton of stuff!

Preparing for a thrift sale is a great way to let go of your serious side, let go of stuff you’ve been hanging on for too long, and let go of being afraid of wasting time.  There is someone out there who will seriously want your stuff, they will pay you a low dollar for it, but you will be FREE of the item and the space it was consuming in your life.  Try it…I dare you, you never know, you might just like it…seriously!

First step – get stuff ready.  This is the time consuming part.  Finding stuff, letting go, working through all the emotions related to it is kind of like getting ready to turn 50.  In fact, it is the perfect time in life.  You still have enough energy to do the work.  Your kids have likely flown the nest and you can clear out things you were hanging on for them, they seriously need some extra cash as they venture off into life and have outgrown the stuff.  Careful though…you’ll feel your life flash before you.  You’ll realize that you’ve held on to the past in hopes of what?  What is it?  What is it?

Change it up, think about what letting go will bring into your life instead of what holding on to things will take away from your life.  Ah…now we’re on to something!

Time to let go and move on to bigger and better things!  FOCUS – get rid of stuff! 

Serious FOCUS Method #1:  This is where you get rid of things that cause you stress.  There is no reason to hang on to things that you don’t love or enjoy or that you’re hanging onto because of ______.
  • Find
  • Objects
  • Causing
  • Undo
  • Stress


Serious FOCUS Method #2:  This is where you get rid of things that have been sitting around just collecting dust or lurking in spaces that you forgot we’re even there.  If you haven’t needed it or used it in a long time, why are you hanging on to it?
  • Free
  • Obstacles
  • Creating
  • Unique
  • Space


Serious FOCUS Method #3:  This is where you dig deep into drawers or under items.  Seriously, why have you been holding on to items that are taking up valuable space, especially spaces where you end up leaving things out because something you don’t use is taking up the space. 
  • Free
  • Objects
  • Covered
  • Under
  • Stuff


After you’ve sorted, organized, and priced all the treasures (I’m by no means an expert on the pricing…just know there is someone out there who will buy it at the price you’ve set).  The big day will come.  The anticipation builds and then the day unfolds.  This is where the true test of your ability not to take things too seriously really comes in.  You’ve practiced and practiced as you let go of items.  Are you ready? 

Wait...here's a test to really see.  Are you ready? You’ll have to be patient and tolerant of:

People who want to take less than the price you’ve tagged the item for?  Seriously…breathe, just breathe…
People who tell you they don’t have any smaller bills, will you take $____?  Seriously…breathe, just breathe…
People who buy the item you thought would never sell!  Seriously…whew, a recovery breath…
People won’t buy the item you thought was the hottest deal!  Seriously…do I have bad taste or what?
People who actually touch every item and rearrange your whole set-up?  Seriously…oh well, at least there’s something to do during the long down time.
People who stop and don’t buy a darn thing!  Seriously…there are plenty of choices, it’s like a mini mall here…really…
People who find that one item you had no idea the value and they will resell on eBay for a high dollar!  Seriously…let it go…let it go…
People who have a story about why they are buying the item…Seriously, this is my favorite part, it helps the time fly by and helps you feel better about letting go by helping someone else. 

On a final serious note:  Must do item!  When you’re done, don’t bring the stuff back in the house!!! – DONATE what’s left…or seriously pack up what you’ll try to sell the next go around!  

That reminds me, now I know what I’ll be doing for a few more days.  Thanks for stopping by!  Enjoy your serious moments of not taking life so seriously!  We’re in the home stretch to turning 50, practice, practice, practice moments of not taking life too seriously.  

PS – photo moments.  This is my favorite part of photography.  Just letting go, seeing what random things I can find and capture in a different way. 


Some THING for everyone!

Seriously...I thought the books would sell!

There's plenty of down time to play with the
camera!

Let it go...at least the view is gorgeous!

Oh no...the next project bee removal!

Ah...the simple things in life!